If you love them...
I would say over the past year I have come to understand what the saying “if you love something/someone let it/them go, and if it is meant to be it will be” means. I feel like this was one of the hardest lessons for me to learn in my life. Over the past year, I have built and re-established connections with individuals who appeared to recognize the connection that we shared as a unique one. On my end — when I feel this way (this was with one person in particular), I want to be vulnerable with this person, build with this person….I want to do all of the things. I get tunnel vision so to speak, but I will admit, with the immense feelings for this person, I did not care lol.
This is how I got my feelings hurt — real bad. I put my heart on the line, and put everything out there to the individual with the hopes that things would be reciprocated in the sense that we would begin to work/build toward something more serious. The other party did not choose to move in that direction with me. Although it was painful, the situation revealed what I needed to see. I did not want to move on from that person because of the feelings I held, but I did. I made the decision that I would not settle for less than what I deserved in this situation, and I would rather lose/separate from this person. This allowed me to see that although I loved and still love this person, I was willing to let them go rather than damage the love that I possess for them…I am willing to test the above-mentioned saying.